Carried By His Wings© -- Sexual Purity Recovery

Wings Devotional Recovery ... June 23, 2010

The Month of June brings us to Step Six ... Almost half a year has gone by  

WILLINGNESS

STEP SIX: Is an inner transformation sometimes called repentance.

STEP SIX: -- I am entirely ready to have GOD remove all my defects of character.

 “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will lift you up.” -- James 4:10

JUST FOR TODAY! -- Giving

From "There's Nothing the Matter with Me!"

"AA doesn't need me, but I need AA Very desperately, very sincerely, very humbly.  Not all at once, because you can't get it all at once, just a little bit at a time.  They told me, 'You've got to get out and work a little; you've got to give.'  They told me that giving was living, and living was loving, and loving was God.  And you don't have to worry about God, because He's sitting right in front of your eyes."

c. 2003, Experience, Strength and Hope - Stories from the First Three Editions of Alcoholics Anonymous, page 201

Wings Devotional© Daily Meditation Translation

is property of Wings Of Eagles Recovery©

Just for Today -- A Daily Devotional

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We must never error and begin to think that our importance So great that a meeting or the program would fail without us.  What we have to admit is our desperate need for the recovery program and our support group.  Even more so, we have a desperate need and desire for God.  God is right in front of us at all times, sometimes He is shown through the love and support of those in our groups, earthly extensions of His arms.  When we finally realize this truth we realize we have been so blessed with the receiving of His gift of a sober life, we then desire to give back to others, those struggling in their addiction.  We can’t hide this gift, but we become compelled to share this gift.  It is the cycle that we must repeat.  We grow in recovery, we see God’s love in His daily provisions for us, we share God’s love with other hurting folks by giving and then we grow in recovery and closer to God.

“What, after all, is Apollos?  And what is Paul?  Only servants, through whom you came to believe--as the Lord has assigned to each his task.  I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow.  So neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow.  The man who plants and the man who waters have one purpose, and each will be rewarded according to his own labor.  For we are God's fellow workers; you are God's field, God's building.” -- I Corinthians 3:5-9

The key is acceptance -- accepting character defects exactly as they are and becoming entirely willing to let them go.

STEP SIX -- Now that you've admitted these defects, don't you want to get rid of them?

These same defects caused your life to be unmanageable. 

How can you ask God to get rid of the things you did in your past?  

YOU CAN'T!!  

You can ask Him to get rid of the defects which caused you to act in the manner you did. 

STEP SIX -- Go to the bible and begin reading:

Genesis 23: 1-4

Genesis 35:19-21

Psalm 51: 16-19

Isaiah 55:1-9

Jonah 4:4-8

John 5: 1-15

Romans 6: 5-11

Philippines 3:12-14

Practically everybody wishes to be rid of his most glaring and destructive defects.  No one wants to be so proud that he is scorned as a braggart, nor so greedy that he is labeled a thief.  No one wants to be angry enough to murder, lustful enough to rape, gluttonous enough to ruin his health.  No one wants to be agonized by chronic envy or paralyzed by sloth.  Of course, most of us don't suffer these effects at these levels, and because of that we are apt to congratulate ourselves.  Yet can we?  

After all, hasn't it been self-interest that has helped caused our demise?  

Not much spiritual effort is involved in avoiding things which will bring us punishment anyway.  But when we face up to the less violent aspects of these very same defects, where do we stand then?  Change is the characteristic of all growth.  From dishonesty to honesty, from conflict to serenity, from hate to love, from childish dependence to adult responsibility.  Therefore, Step Six can be seen as our willingness to discard bad or ineffective principles in favor of good ones that work. 

Are we ENTIRELY ready (not almost, just about, not some) to get rid of these defects?  Are we ready to get rid of them ALL, even the ones that are fun?

Remember, we turned our life and will over to Him in Step Three. 

“Whoever tries to keep his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life will preserve it.” -- Luke 17:33

Sixth Step Prayer

Dear God,
I am ready for Your help
in removing from me the defects of character
which I now realize are an obstacle to my recovery.
Help me to continue being honest with myself &
guide me toward spiritual & mental health.

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The Man in the Glass

Author Unknown

When you get what you want in your struggles for self

And the world makes you king for a day,

Just go to a mirror and look at yourself

And see what that man has to say.

For it isn't your father or mother or wife

Whose judgment upon you must pass,

The fellow whose verdict counts most in your life

Is the one staring back from the glass.

Some people might think you're a straight-shooting chum

And call you a wonderful guy.

But the man in the glass says you're only a bum

If you can't look him straight in the eye.

He's the fellow to please, never mind all the rest

For he's with you clear to the end

And you've passed your most dangerous test

If the guy in the glass is your friend.

You may fool the whole world down the pathway of years

And get pats on the back as you pass

But your final reward will be heartache and tears

If you've cheated the man in the glass.

The Story goes that this poem was scrawled on the walls of death row in an American prison.  With these type of affirmations firmly in our minds, we can assure ourselves that it doesn’t matter how many mistakes we make along the way – we will never really fail.  For a of us, “People Pleasing” and “Peer Group Pressure” were a couple of reasons that began our Journey On the Highway To Hell in the first place. 

If we outwardly appear to be “wonderful”, yet our hearts become full of resentment, bitterness and hatred;

Hatred will act as a cancer and destroy whatever we have built.

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TO "LET GO"

To "let go" does not mean to stop caring,
it means I can't do it for someone else.

To "let go" is not to cut myself off,
it's the realization I can't control another.

To "let go" is not to enable,
but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To "let go" is to admit powerlessness,
which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another,
it’s to make the most of myself.

To "let go" is not to care for, but care about.

To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To "let go" is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To "let go" is not to be protective,
it's to permit another to face reality.

To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires
but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.

To "let go" is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future.

To "let go" is to fear less and love more..."

            author unknown

GOALS FOR STEP FOUR

· Describe a moral inventory.

· Write an inventory of dishonesty and resentment.

· Write and inventory of self-pity and false pride.

· Write and inventory of criticism and destructive anger.

· Write and inventory of fear and impatience.

·  When writing your, inventory give specific examples for each behavior and attitude.

· Search the Bible for how God views each behavior and how we are to counteract the behavior through the examples in the Bible.

· Record insights and Scripture references. Remember be honest. God created you as you are and loves you unconditionally.

· Remember that prayer before I begin invites the LORD into this process with me and will help me to see what areas GOD needs to cleanse in me.  Use my sponsor's support, s/he is praying for me as I go through this process.

· Not to be discouraged, when it gets tough. Even when I feel like walking away from the process, persevere, in the end, you are healed.

Remember you are loved!

STEP FOUR: Involves Self-Examination.

STEP FOUR: I Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of myself.

"Let us examine our ways and test them, and let us return to the Lord". -- Lamentations 3:40

Fourth Step Prayer:

Dear God,

It is I who has made my life a mess.
I have done it, but I cannot undo it.

My mistakes are mine & I will begin a
searching & fearless moral inventory.

I will write down my wrongs,
but I will also include that which is good.

I pray for the strength to complete the task.

Amen

RECOVERY MEDITATIONS

To help you understand what the Scriptures say about the personal inventorying of our lives,

·  Numbers 23:18-24

·  Deuteronomy 30:15-20

·  Psalm 61:1-8

·  Proverbs 5:3-6

·  Proverbs 16:2,3

·  Isaiah 54:4-8

·  Matthew 11:27-30

·  Matthew 23:23-28

·  Luke 12:1-6

·  Romans 13:11-14

·  Acts 17:23-28

·  I Corinthians 4:19, 20

·  Galatians 6:3-5

·   James 4:7-10

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When Things Are Tough

These times are hard but challenge and adversity can push people toward their own greatness.  It can launch you on a deeper personal journey toward happiness, fulfillment, and a life of meaning.  As you look at ways to gather strength and improve self-esteem, remember it is not so much about what you have, but who you are:

Broke Is Not Broken

Being broke is not the same thing as being broken, losing money is not the same as being lost, and finding your balance is not something you can do on a balance sheet.

Having Less Doesn’t Mean You Are Less

Don’t confuse having less with being less, having more with being more, or what you have with who you are.

Savor Life and Slow Down

          When you are in a hurry, go slowly.  The faster you go in life the sooner it is a blur.

Prayer Creates a New Path

          Prayer creates a path where there is none and turns your stumbling blocks into building blocks.

Courage Is Not Absence of Fear

Put your faith, and not your fears, in charge.  Courage isn’t the absence of fears but how you wrestle with them.

Embrace the Future

If you are busy hugging the past, you can’t embrace the future.  Don’t let the past kidnap your future.

Change Is the Only Constant

This too shall pass.  Change is the only constant.  In order to take a breath, you must release your breath.

Make a Difference

Do what you can, but never forget that letting go is very different from giving up.  Of all the things you can make in life, remember that you make all the difference in your life.

Embrace Happiness

Tough times do not require you to be tough on yourself.  Find the courage to embrace happiness.

You Are Great

          Things don’t have to be good for you to be great.

Prayer of commitment to GOD:

Dear Jesus,

Thank YOU for making me and loving me,

even when I ignored you and gone my own way. 

I realize I need You in my life

and I’m sorry for my past behavior. 

I ask You to forgive me. 

As much as I know how, I want to follow You from now on.

Please come into my life and

make me a new person inside. 

I accept Your gift of salvation. 

Please help me to grow now as a Christian.

Amen.

* As you make your requests known to the Lord, include:

·        greater personal discipline,

·        worldwide persecuted Christians,

·        Hedge of protection to our children

·        Blessings to our spouses

·        Godly men in Government

·        Rest and Peace to our pastors

·        Your activities for the day.

Love One Another

Stand Together

Fight this war, no matter the cost

Pray for our children

Turn our hearts toward heaven

Seek to be one nation under God.

God Bless and Guide You in your Christian Walk Today

“The Lord bless you and keep you,
the Lord make his face shine upon you
and be gracious to you;
the Lord turn his face toward you
and give you peace.”
-- Numbers 6:24-27

You can help when no one else can."
  -- c. 2001, Alcoholics Anonymous, page 89
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